Did you have, or want a natural delivery?Are your friends and families asking questions like "are you gonna nurse that kid through college?" Have you and your husband/wife/other resorted to quickies in the shower due to the takeover of your bed by one or more of your offspring? Is "positive reinforcement" your ideal (but not always the reality)? Do you read Mothering magazine. If you answered yes to any of these questions then you are probably attempting what is termed "attachment parenting" and unless you think you are doing it all perfect, this is the group for you. This approach to parenting is time consuming, requires a lot of dedication, and gets alot of flack from mainstream society. So this is a place to get a little positive reinforcement.