Whenever someone is traumatised, doctors say it is good to talk about your experience. it helps with the pain. birthmoms are united under one fact...the world denies us the right to feel and talk about it simply because we made a choice. as if the choice itself forfeits the right to talk about it all together. here is a place to talk about it. share experiences, photos, heartaches, happinesses. we are united, truely, in an experience no other person can understand unless they've walked through it as well. anyone attacking another member, posting hateful things, soliciting for adoption, or being mean will be banned. so, be nice, or leave! thanks