I want this to be a place where people who have gone through very similar experiences can help one anther emotionaly. I just started this group so give me some time. Afterall I have been spending most of my time at the NICU. My son's name is Chase and he is almost 2 months old. He just got an ileostomy, so hopefully that goes well, because I am sick of seeing him in so much pain. Feb 08 Chase came home. He has been doing good, but swallowing the liquids too much yet, solids are good though. I am pleased to see this community of strength (the group) has grown. It gives me such a good feeling to know we can help eachother. All of our children are so strong, they are like super heros. any of you please feel free to contact me any time. Starting this group and getting to know some of you really helped get me through those difficult times.