I want to spread the truth about the sex and porn industries.
Before I discovered SHELLEY LUBBEN and read her story, I sincerely believed that the porn industry was full of girls who were perverts (and made it tough on the rest of us) I apologise to all of the female (and male) victims of the porn industry. Since reading her story, I have been moved to spread the truth:
PORN DESTROYS. And the porn and sex industry is littered with broken people. But don’t take my word for it.
Message to the PornStars
I haven’t started this group to moralize or because I have an issue with people watching other people having sex (though, when put like that, isn’t that a bit of a weird interest?). I’m of the thinking that people can pretty much do what they want to as long as no one is getting harmed and if everyone is a consenting adult.
But that is NOT what porn is, Basically, for the stars, porn is consensual rape. I call it that because they get money for it, which is why they say Yes, but the experience of making porn effects them mentally the same way as if they had been dragged off of the street and raped. In fact, many have been raped or violated as little children. Bizarrely, selling their bodies ends up as being the only way they feel any “value” as a human being, yet at the same time, while making porn they are emotionally and physically reliving violations they experienced as children (hence the name of this group). It is also the same for those working in prostitution, dancing, stripping, etc... 90+% of the sex industry were sexually abused as children, and many porn stars work, have worked or will work in all or most sectors of the sex industry.
I mentioned consent earlier. Many stars (male and female) have drug addictions, Some went into porn to pay for their addiction, the rest started taking drugs to deal with the physical and emotional pain of performing in porn. Drugs and alcohol are always on set of porn shoots, just to loosen up the female stars, and lessen their inhibitions, so the pornographers get the types of porn they want, which is usually very violent & disgusting & humiliating, which these girls would never agree to or do while sober. Can you really give genuine consent when you are so drunk or stoned you can’t even think or feel physical pain??
Imagine this: If, over the course of a lifetime, a group of men lured away THOUSANDS of financially desperate young women with the “promise” of a glamorous life, but instead, for months or even years held them captive, in a drugged stupor so they were unable to think for themselves or fight back, passed them around their colleagues, who exposed them to countless diseases, repeatedly raped them, gang raped, tortured these women until they are unable to go to the toilet for days, and their insides rip and start to come out of their body, yet force them to say how much they are loving this horrific experience. Imagine if groups of men performed such sexual violations to them, that, if they even survive the ordeal, their reproductive organs and feminine parts have to be surgically removed because they are so badly crushed and damaged to be saved, and will never be able to be used for their natural purpose. Would you let your 12-17 year-old children (the largest consumers of internet porn) see this happen to anyone? If the men who did this were arrested for it, society and the media would be calling for the executions of these sick and evil men, because they are a danger to women every where...
THIS IS WHAT THE PORN INDUSTRY IS!!
But the men I write about are are clever! Oh yes! Because they film their sick violations of human bodies, they make many copies of it, they package it and sell it. They lie and say it is only fun and no one gets hurt! They claim that EVERYBODY’S doing these things. People give them their money, and THEY get filthy rich, and are portrayed (by the media) as heroes!!! How hypocritical!!
WTF??? How can this be??
PORN - SOME STATISTICS
there is an average of 11,000 porn movies, but only 450 mainstream movies made in/by Hollywood each year.
more money is spent annually on porn than spent on tickets to cinema, theatre and the arts, or sporting events.
£2,000 spent on porn EVERY SECOND
estimated £55BILLION was spent on porn and sex industry in 2006
there are 4.2million porn websites (12% of all websites, with numbers increasing weekly)
12-17 year olds are the largest consumer/viewers of internet porn - is this a healthy way for children to learn sex? we must protect our children from this!
fake websites of famous children's characters are regularly used as links to thousands of porn sites
child porn is illegal but there is still 100,000 sites of it
child porn victims have had, on average, 82 different abusers
90% of porn“stars” were sexually abused as children
porn“stars” don’t actually enjoy making porn
85% admit to using drugs and alcohol to numb the emotional and physical pain of working in the industry (though it’s thought to be much higher)
32% of prostitutes are expected to re-enact what clients have seen in porn
49% of prostitutes had videos/porn made of them while working
the current "life" of a female porn star is 3 months, by then she has developed a drug habit and stopped getting big money in porn movies, and with no rehab for addicts in the industry, she has to start stripping or prostituting herself to support her habit
shockingly, the same percentage of porn/sex industry workers and combat war veterans are diagnosed with PTSD (Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder)
(sometimes higher depending on which country they work/perform)
40+ famous porn actresses and actors have died between 1993 and 2007 due to the trauma of working in the industry
the porn industry is littered emotionally destroyed people
don’t be a wanker
don’t support this cruel industry
To find out more, or to help end the abuse, or for help out of porn, please visit www.thepinkcross.org
Web Cam girls & boys, please get in contact with Shelley Lubben via thepinkcross.org
Nakedness is not only for a piece of clothing; nakedness is lack of human dignity, and also that beautiful virtue of purity, and lack of that respect for each other. -- Mother Teresa
**Ex Porn Stars, please add your stories to the forum board if you wish to!**
PLEASE, could anyone who joins this group invite all their friends, even if they don’t accept the invite, they’ll at least visit and read and find out what porn actually is, which is the most important thing at the end of the day.
Thanks
